“I felt so ashamed and isolated that I begged my adult children to run basic errands, like grocery shopping, for me so I didn’t have to leave the house. I didn’t have a life anymore,” Bless recalls.
She credits her faith in God with leading her to Ayman Mahdy, MD, in November 2011. Mahdy is a urologist/surgeon with UC Health who specializes in female incontinence and an assistant professor at the UC College of Medicine.
“No one should suffer with long-term incontinence, because it can be cured in most cases. Each patient’s scenario must be individually evaluated and addressed to find the true cause of the problem. This allows us to create a customized solution that will result in the best outcome for the patient,” says Mahdy.
Through a comprehensive medical evaluation, Mahdy found the source of Bless’ problem—a hole in the wall of her urethra which caused urine to flow—uncontrolled—out through her vagina instead of being held in the bladder reservoir.
Mahdy utilized cystoscopy and natural orifice (vaginal) surgery to repair the hole, restoring Bless’ ability to hold urine for voluntary release.
“I want to tell the whole world about how Dr. Mahdy helped me. I used to cry out of depression, but now I cry out of joy,” recalls Bless when reflecting on her care with UC Health. “Dr. Mahdy completely changed my life by making me continent after so many years of being miserable. I feel like a whole person again.”
Since her surgery in the fall of 2011, Bless has had no problems with urine leakage. She is back to her volunteer work as an evangelist through Christ Emmanuel Christian Fellowship in Walnut Hills and mentoring abused teenage girls through 20/20 two Saturdays a month. She also published an autobiography called “Out of the Darkness: The Michelle Bless Story,” detailing how she rose above a life of physical and mental abuse herself. Michelle Bless is a pseudonym she assumed when writing the book to respect her family’s privacy.
“I am no longer a prisoner in my own home. I am back out in the world—living my life and enjoying time with my husband, my children, grandchildren and friends,” adds Bless.
» Appointments and More Information
To contact UC Health Urology, call 513-475-8787 or visit ucphysicians.com to learn more. Mahdy sees patients at the UC Health Physicians Offices in West Chester and Clifton. He is fellowship trained in voiding dysfunction and female urology and offers both medical and surgical management of a full spectrum of voiding dysfunction and urinary incontinence problems.
UC Health Urology operates a West Chester-based video-urodynamics laboratory, equipped with advanced technology and a well-trained talented staff. This laboratory is mandatory for evaluation of complex cases of voiding dysfunction and urinary incontinence. It will also serve patients with neurogenic bladder and failed previous incontinence surgeries.